Who will do the first move?

Just really love this FB wall post of my high-school classmate Mia.

 “Making the first move to patch things up shouldn’t always come from the one who made the mistake but it can come from the one who understands.”

Few days ago, I have scolded my 2nd cousin (my scholar) because of his mistakes. Then he suddenly disappeared. And when I read this wall post, I realized that I shoud understand him more. He is still young and he needs guidance.  

Just like me, he is the hope of his family. And I should inspire him even more to do good in his studies and not quit school, whatever will happen.